Never fly anything you can't afford to replace. Smart bombs aren't that smart. If it seems stupid but works, it's not stupid. There are no fair or unfair fights, only battles. Any action can lead to your demise, including inaction. If something doesn't kill you, it has made a tactical error. The enemy diversion you're ignoring is likely the main attack. The "undock" button is synonymous with the "consent to PvP" button. There are plenty of fools in EVE, but never assume everyone is one. A little trust goes a long way; the less you use, the farther you'll go.